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Q. I grew up in St. Mary's County and recently relocated to VA. My soon-to-be husband and I want to get married outside in October. We are planning on 250-275 people, and I want to have it in a place that will show all of our out-of-town guests the beauty of St. Mary's. Do you have any suggestions?
       - Submitted by a Bride from St. Mary's County, MD 

A. Try Historic St. Mary's City -- they have large grounds, a tent you can rent, and many beautiful location options for your ceremony. Find....
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Q. I am looking for a good place to take bridal shots near DC. With the Spring just arriving, there really are not a lot of flowers in bloom... any suggestions?.
       - Submitted by a Bride from Charles County 

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A. My name is Sandi Foraci, and I’m photographer in Southern Md. I’d be happy to give you some suggestions. There are several great places to do bridal portraits in DC. The Capitol is a great location, because a permit is not required. There is a beautiful waterfall out front, the monument, plus several secluded areas with trees and benches on the grounds. The Smithsonian Gardens is also a great place. Just a few blocks from the Capitol, they do a wonderful job of keeping the grounds looking good all year round. Senate Park (Across from Union Station) is another location you might try. There are lines of trees, an outdoor waterfall, and a view of the Capitol from behind. Hope you find this information helpful!

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Q. I want a fireplace at my reception location, unfortunately my venue does not have one. Are there any vendors in Southern Maryland that rent portable fireplaces?.
       - Submitted by a Bride from Newburg, MD 

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A. You may wish to start by contacting your reception site facility to see if portable fireplaces are permitted. Since they are portable it could be considered a fire hazard and you may have issues that would require additional insurance. If they do allow portable fireplaces, ask them if they have any companies they use or recommend. If not, start with rental companies listed in our Vendor Directory. They can point you in the right direction. Good luck!

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Q. I am looking for a church in Waldorf or White Plains that will allow me to hold a wedding ceremony without being a member. I am Methodist, my fiancé is Baptist..
       - Submitted by a Bride from Charles County, MD 

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A. Try Good Shepard United Methodist Church on Smallwood Drive in Waldorf or Calvary Gospel Church on Berry Road in Waldorf.

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Q. I am looking for a place that is like a "wedding warehouse". I am creating the decor for my reception and I need to find a place with a larger inventory than Michaels and AC Moore. I want to be able to see the things I am buying, rather then buying them online and being unhappy! Please Help!.
       - Submitted by a Bride from Charles County, MD 

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A. I'm sorry. We know of no such place! If you find one, please let us know and we'll help spread the word. Our advice if you cannot find one is to start early in the planning process and find places online that offer samples or has no minimum quantity purchases so you can see the items in person to decide if you want to purchase more. The key is to allowing yourself plenty of time to do your shopping.

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Q. How much should I tip the wedding coordinator if I purchased a wedding package from the hotel she works for?.
       - Submitted by a Bride from a location outside Southern Maryland 

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A. Tipping this person is optional, but if you want to recognize someone who's gone above and beyond the call of duty, go ahead and tip. For a wedding consultant who has worked with you for the whole process, give 10 percent of that person's fee as your tip. For a day-of coordinator or a coordinator employed by someone else (like a hotel), $50 is fair.

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Q. My fiancee and I want to do an indoor wedding but are not members of a church and do not plan to be. Do you have any suggestions on where we can have an affordable but nice indoor wedding?.
       - Submitted by a Bride from St. Mary's County, MD 

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A. There are many reception site locations that offer alternate locations for the ceremony. You can then hire an officiant to perform the ceremony for you. Find a list of reception site facilities in our Vendor Directory or view a copy of our recent magazine and view the reception site grid which will let you know if they offer a separate area for a ceremony.

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Q. I was wondering if there is anyone that will decorate a reception site if provided all decorations and instructions. I am getting married in Calvert County but live in St Mary's. I need to decorate the same day of the event and am worried about time constraints, I am willing to pay a reasonable price. .
       - Submitted by a Bride from St. Mary's County, MD 

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A. You'll find that professional decorators work independently the day of the wedding, needing no input from the couple. Once you hire a decorator, you will meet with that person to hash out the details of what you want. On the day of your wedding, that person and their staff will decorate the site for you based on the plans you made. You might find that your decorator is already familiar with your wedding location, which is very helpful while making plans. If not, plan a visit to the facility together so you can work out the details in person. You'll find many great decorators in our Vendor Directory.

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Q. I'm having a pink and brown themed wedding. My bridesmaids are wearing latte dresses with a brown sash. What color tuxes should the groom and the groomsmen wear?.
       - Submitted by a Bride from St. Mary's County, MD 

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A. Either white or black would work, it just depends on your preference. (We even found brown tuxedos at one website we checked.) You can coordinate their attire with the bridesmaids' by choosing ties and vests or cummerbunds in pink, latte or brown, your wedding colors. You'll also find vests in interesting fabrics and patterns at many tuxedo rental companies, which will add a little flair to the guys' outfits.

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Q. I am having my wedding on Valentine's Day, 2009, and I'm considering just hooking up an iPod instead of hiring a DJ for the reception. We're on a very tight budget, and none of the DJs I've talked to even HAVE the kind of music we like. Would this work for, say, the fellowship hall of the church? It'll be a small reception (40-50 people tops), and I don't anticipate a whole lot of dancing..
       - Submitted by a Bride from St. Mary's County, MD 

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A. If you're not expecting your guests to dance, this can work because you're essentially providing background music for dinner and mingling. If there's a sound system at your location that you can use, you're in luck. If not, check our Vendor Directory under Rentals to find one to rent. On the day of your wedding, have someone monitor the music so that you or your groom don't have to do it. Don't forget the other benefits of a DJ, though -- they also provide emcee services and keep things moving during the reception -- and some are willing to play music you bring them.

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Q. I grew up in St. Mary's County and recently relocated to VA. My soon-to-be husband and I want to get married outside in October. We are planning on 250-275 people, and I want to have it in a place that will show all of our out-of-town guests the beauty of St. Mary's. Do you have any suggestions?.
       - Submitted by a Bride from St. Mary's County, MD 

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A. Try Historic St. Mary's City -- they have large grounds, a tent you can rent, and many beautiful location options for your ceremony. Find their contact information in our Vendor Directory.

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